Getting physical with a coworker...need help?

decide what it is about the fantasy that was so appealing and try to find that somewhere else in your life. Ssy perhaps its that she showed up to work in a suit and let you tear it off her, well that's easy have a partner dress up that way and relive it. It probably isn't the girl that's doing it for you, it sounds like its the fantasy that you want. and you know that even if you were to get intimate with this coworker... it'd be nothing like the dream. Oh, and by the way, she won't pick up any signals from you unless you want her to. just act casually, things will cool down.